Sheenia's Journey of Self-Discovery: She Quit Her Job to Become a Homemaker and is Embracing a New Chapter
Meet Sheenia- she’s left teaching but is still working, and on her terms.
Sheenia Denae is a former teacher turned homemaker based in Texas. She’s also a freelance content writer and the creator of Live Love & Blossom lifestyle blog. In her spare time, Sheenia enjoys reading recipes, hiking, and watching movies with her family.
I met her in a blogging group and was thrilled she agreed to share her 9-5 escape story here. It’s one about doing what you love and prioritizing family. A story about making the right decision for YOU and yours and about simplifying one's life. A story many of us can relate to.
So yes, she may be out of the workforce per se, but she is building life as a blogger and freelance writer so that her role as homemaker can be the focus. Read on my friends- and be inspired.
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The Journey
Three years ago, after working as a teacher for over a decade, I decided to leave. Although I knew it was the right thing to do, this was one of the scariest decisions I’ve ever made.
The moment I quit my job to become a homemaker, my life changed in a multitude of ways. Initially, giving up the only career I had ever known left me feeling lost and confused. But as time passed, having the freedom to prioritize the well-being of my family made me happier than any job ever could.
Although I cherished my role as an educator, I realized that there were other aspects of my life that needed my attention. In this article, I’ll be sharing a few reasons why I quit my job to become a homemaker, and how I’m embracing this new chapter!
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Choosing a Simplified Lifestyle
It’s no secret that balancing the demands and stresses of work can definitely take its toll. I quit my job to become a homemaker for one primary reason—because my life lacked simplicity. I wanted to create a lifestyle that allowed me to be more physically (and emotionally) available for my family, instead of always rushing from place to place.
The truth is, in today’s society, we’re often taught that career achievements and financial success are the keys to happiness. But stepping away from the professional scenery has given me a different perspective on life.
Since leaving the workforce, I’ve begun to live life at a calmer pace. And I have more appreciation for the little things… such as morning walks, quiet moments in nature, and creating precious memories with my family.
RELATED: This Free At 50 post on steps to simplify your life in terms of 9-5 escape.
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Embracing My Role as a Homemaker
When I quit my job to become a homemaker, I didn’t quite know what to expect. But with each passing day, I’m beginning to find myself in this new role.
Since leaving the classroom, I’ve continued dedicating my professional skills towards essential tasks. As a homemaker, I manage appointments, schedules, foster emotional support, provide a stable environment, and I’m responsible for the overall maintenance of my home. These are all crucial elements that contribute to the success and happiness of my family.
Becoming a homemaker has allowed me to invest in several areas of my life. All around, I’m in a better place than I was several years ago—mentally, physically, spiritually, and emotionally.
Since leaving the workforce, I’ve tremendously grown as a person. But more importantly, I’m a better wife and mom as well.
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Rediscovering My Passions
Leaving my job and embracing homemaking has allowed me to rediscover a sense of personal fulfillment. I have more time to engage in activities that bring me genuine joy and satisfaction.
Cooking, writing, and organizing my home are simple, everyday pleasures that I enjoy. Besides pursuing creative hobbies, I’m also able to prioritize self-care and personal development. Homemaking has allowed me to enhance my own well-being, and has provided me with the freedom to craft a life that truly resonates with my values.
RELATED: Insights from the 4-Hour Workweek include marrying your skills and passions- read more here!
Overcoming Challenges
The decision to become a homemaker is not without its challenges, especially in a society where women are often judged based on their professional achievements. Overcoming societal stigma has been an essential aspect of my journey.
Some days are harder than others, but I’ve decided not to let societal structures dictate my happiness. Each day, I remind myself of my WHY.
I quit my job to become a homemaker, not because it pleases others. But to create my very own sense of worth, success, and fulfillment.
Here are 10 affirmations that have helped me embrace this transition:
- I am confident that NOW is the right time.
- I am creating a life that inspires and motivates me.
- I believe in the woman I’m becoming.
- I am in charge of my future.
- I am present, capable, and calm.
- I enjoy what I do and how I do it.
- I have a purposeful life and nurture only positivity.
- I feel secure in who I am, and there’s no need to compare myself to others.
- Everything I do serves a purpose for my family.
- The decisions made by others do not dictate mine.
NOTE from Daphne: Check out the Create Affirm and Inspire Idea Book here! Created by Deanna Wheeler of RAW Wellness.
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A New Chapter
Choosing to quit my job and become a homemaker was a life-altering decision that opened new doors of self-discovery, personal growth, and fulfillment. Embracing the role of a homemaker has allowed me to prioritize my family, appreciate the value of simple pleasures, rediscover my passions, and challenge societal expectations.
While the journey of being a homemaker carries its own challenges—the joy, love, and solidarity it brings have enriched my life beyond measure. Ultimately, this decision has empowered me to craft a life that truly aligns with my values.
As I continue to embrace this new chapter, I’m finding a deeper sense of purpose and contentment in life. I’m not saying that I will never return to the workforce, as we never know what tomorrow may bring.
But for now, in this season of my life, I’m proud to be a woman of home.
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